Friday, September 19, 2008

ANATOMY OF LOVE..... ( HOW DO I FEEL VERSION )...

Now comes 'How do i feel version". Love to me means "giving". Love can never be demanding . if u love someone and u expect them to love you back ...it is a BARGAIN , certainly not LOVE.
ALTRUISM is the very root of love. you can not demand in love , neither can u complain if your feelings are not reciprocated. You can just love.... and love for the sake of only and only one thing .....LOVE. I know when a person is in love he/she wants to spend the lifetime with his beloved . Yes this feeling is always there, it does not mean you love less.But even when you are sure that you will never get to live with that person or even just talk to him fr that reason and even then u happily want to spend your lifetime loving that person ....that is love.
A couple of years back i saw this hindi movie ROG ( Irfaan khan was the main lead) which very beautifully portrayed love. I dont think many ppl understood the gravity in it but somehow i feel i could identify with the writer. The movie is based upon a murder investigation in which a model goes missing. Irfaan khan ( a cop) falls in love with this missing girl who he takes for dead , in love with her pics.....and when he eventually meets her he tells her flat " you are not the one i love , i love the one in these pictures".
Ah!!! that is what love is for me.....loving somebody with all you have and when i say all , i mean with every cell , every drop of your soul.....and not demanding a dime ,and if u may ....demand all the pains, all the agony of your beloved. That can be your only reward. LOVE for the sake of love , live for the sake of this most divine bliss.... it is anytime better to love and to loose than not to love at all.....

MADHUR UNIYAL

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